Tag Archive: Presence

Focus on You as a Man

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I have been away from here for over a month. During this time I have been thinking about ‘Male eXperience’, its direction and its future. Can I focus the site more accurately, to gain more depth and to help you in a more identifiable way. What is ‘Male eXperience’ for? Who is its target audience? What is the issue that causes the greatest pain?

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Male Energy – eBook

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It’s published!The first in the series of eBooks ‘men and..‘, is ‘men and.. Male Energy‘.It is important to me to set out what I see is at the root of masculinity. In Male eXperience I seek to guide men into re-awakening ...

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Men in May

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This is my look at what there has been on Men on the Internet in May. It is my intention to promote what there is to help us all reach a wider audience. This month I feature Jayson Gaddis, The Good Men Project, Primer Magazine, The Art of Manliness, Citizen renegade and The Art of Non-Conformity.

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How do you keep it Fresh?

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I was talking about my relationship to a female friend, talking about men, but she did not understand how to keep an exciting relationship at its initial level over time. My answer was simple, “You need to start afresh every day”. “But how do you do that?” she said. That, of course, is where the simplicity ends.

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But How and Why?

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Nelson Mandela’s presence is an example to men everywhere. His focus and dedication in the face of his incarceration seems almost super-human. Men, when they ‘get it’ can be amazingly powerful, but how do they get there?

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Pleading Does Not Hack It

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I was having dinner the other night with two ladies. We were sitting in a small Indian cafe in Little India in Singapore. We were discussing men, of course what else do you talk about? Well, men and where they go wrong…

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What puts Women off Men?

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At a recent seminar the focus was on personal development and success. There was a greater percentage of women than men. So here was a perfect opportunity for men to show themselves in their strength, but did they…

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Male Presence in Fiji

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Presence is the most important masculine characteristic. Men who master this are in command of themselves and their ability to relate to others. It is the quality of knowing yourself and who you are. ..

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Stereotype | Frank Wheeler

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My son said, “if I ever become Frank Wheeler please tie me to a chair and punch me in the nose until I can smell my bullshit”. Frank is hopeless emptiness. He is the man that so many women meet and marry…

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