What does it mean to be a ‘Man’? How can this best be described? What is a ‘Man’? Male is a biological term which has no connotations. It is a simple and straightforward definition of gender. “For male and female alike, the bodies of the other sex are messages signaling what we must do, they are glowing signifiers of our own necessities.” (John Updike)
There are three men Tom, Dick and Harry. Tom found women lost interest in him. Dick found his relationships crashing and burning. Harry had a secure long-term relationship and found women constantly interested in him. All three men had the same advantages in terms of looks and wealth so what’s the difference? It’s in how they react to female testing.
I am awake early. I get up, avoiding waking her. Start writing, time to get into my flow. She wakes, she’s in the kitchen, “Shall we have breakfast first?”. “Hmmm”, I say, concentrating, “before what?”. “Before we start”, she says. Silence from me, I’m focusing. Slowly, ever so slowly, it dawns on me. “Come here”, I say…
I was recently involved in a discussion on Facebook that was prompted by a man asking why he was not succeeding with women. The responses from women show a need that is not being provided by men.
Presence is the most important masculine characteristic. Men who master this are in command of themselves and their ability to relate to others. It is the quality of knowing yourself and who you are. ..
I love seeing the way men bond. Sitting on a beautiful Saturday morning, bright and cold. I see a typical picture of Male Bonding. Two men sitting in a boat fishing not talking but enjoying each other’s company…
Gary Stamper in “Beyond Integral” has recently written on the importance of polarity in relationships. I know from my own experience that he is right. Polarity is the most vital element in a living relationship…
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