Tag Archive: focus

Questions, Questions

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I am awake early. I get up, avoiding waking her. Start writing, time to get into my flow. She wakes, she’s in the kitchen, “Shall we have breakfast first?”. “Hmmm”, I say, concentrating, “before what?”. “Before we start”, she says. Silence from me, I’m focusing. Slowly, ever so slowly, it dawns on me. “Come here”, I say…

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How do you keep it Fresh?

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I was talking about my relationship to a female friend, talking about men, but she did not understand how to keep an exciting relationship at its initial level over time. My answer was simple, “You need to start afresh every day”. “But how do you do that?” she said. That, of course, is where the simplicity ends.

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But How and Why?

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Nelson Mandela’s presence is an example to men everywhere. His focus and dedication in the face of his incarceration seems almost super-human. Men, when they ‘get it’ can be amazingly powerful, but how do they get there?

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Male Bonding

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I love seeing the way men bond. Sitting on a beautiful Saturday morning, bright and cold. I see a typical picture of Male Bonding. Two men sitting in a boat fishing not talking but enjoying each other’s company…

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