I was talking about my relationship to a female friend, talking about men, but she did not understand how to keep an exciting relationship at its initial level over time. My answer was simple, “You need to start afresh every day”. “But how do you do that?” she said. That, of course, is where the simplicity ends.
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Cheta has written on Trust and Surrender in Female eXperience, about an experiment where she wanted to fully experience the two feminine characteristics of Trusting and Surrendering. Here I want to look at what it meant for me to fully experience trust and surrender from a woman.
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Nelson Mandela’s presence is an example to men everywhere. His focus and dedication in the face of his incarceration seems almost super-human. Men, when they ‘get it’ can be amazingly powerful, but how do they get there?
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When we first met you were crazy about her. You couldn’t stop talking about her. You wanted so much to be with her, all the time, but you couldn’t make it work. You needed her to show you the way. But it never happened, it fell apart. What do you want now…
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In Tantra one thing has had a powerful effect on me, the special relationship between men and women. The story of Kali draws powerful lessons for men from this. I will explore this using the words of women…
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Gary Stamper in “Beyond Integral” has recently written on the importance of polarity in relationships. I know from my own experience that he is right. Polarity is the most vital element in a living relationship…
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