I have been away from here for over a month. During this time I have been thinking about ‘Male eXperience’, its direction and its future. Can I focus the site more accurately, to gain more depth and to help you in a more identifiable way. What is ‘Male eXperience’ for? Who is its target audience? What is the issue that causes the greatest pain?
The Clash’s famous song is a cry heard from many men, “Should I Stay or Should I Go?”. They don’t understand their woman. They are confused because she won’t make her mind up. But she is a woman, she needs certainty from the man, not the other way round. What does he want? Will he be there no matter what?
What does it mean to be a ‘Man’? How can this best be described? What is a ‘Man’? Male is a biological term which has no connotations. It is a simple and straightforward definition of gender. “For male and female alike, the bodies of the other sex are messages signaling what we must do, they are glowing signifiers of our own necessities.” (John Updike)
There are three men Tom, Dick and Harry. Tom found women lost interest in him. Dick found his relationships crashing and burning. Harry had a secure long-term relationship and found women constantly interested in him. All three men had the same advantages in terms of looks and wealth so what’s the difference? It’s in how they react to female testing.
It’s published!The first in the series of eBooks ‘men and..‘, is ‘men and.. Male Energy‘.It is important to me to set out what I see is at the root of masculinity. In Male eXperience I seek to guide men into re-awakening ...
This is my look at what there has been on Men on the Internet in May. It is my intention to promote what there is to help us all reach a wider audience. This month I feature Jayson Gaddis, The Good Men Project, Primer Magazine, The Art of Manliness, Citizen renegade and The Art of Non-Conformity.
I heard a conversation in which one woman was telling another that she was upset that her man had just broken up with her. The reason he gave was that she kept taking control during sex. Thinking about this I became angry with the man involved, with his inadequacy, his inability to be a man.
I am awake early. I get up, avoiding waking her. Start writing, time to get into my flow. She wakes, she’s in the kitchen, “Shall we have breakfast first?”. “Hmmm”, I say, concentrating, “before what?”. “Before we start”, she says. Silence from me, I’m focusing. Slowly, ever so slowly, it dawns on me. “Come here”, I say…
I was talking about my relationship to a female friend, talking about men, but she did not understand how to keep an exciting relationship at its initial level over time. My answer was simple, “You need to start afresh every day”. “But how do you do that?” she said. That, of course, is where the simplicity ends.
Cheta has written on Trust and Surrender in Female eXperience, about an experiment where she wanted to fully experience the two feminine characteristics of Trusting and Surrendering. Here I want to look at what it meant for me to fully experience trust and surrender from a woman.
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