I am Graham Phoenix and I am the creator of, and writer for, ‘Male eXperience’. This site started as my personal blog and had grown into a site about men, for men and women.
Male eXperience
The site is my experience of being a man, with my successes and failures. It is my view of masculinity, as an example of one mans approach. I speak to men about themselves, encouraging them to drop the mask, and speak to women about men, helping them to understand. Most importantly I help men to create change, and I encourage growth in men.
My vision is that the site will create men who are aware of themselves and are present. I would like to see more men question their motivation and see themselves objectively. I want men to be open to change and mbrace new ideas and approaches. I want men to become aware of their effect on others and temper their strength as men. My vision is that men are comfortable in their masculinity and take action.
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How Can I Help?
I am here to help you stop wondering and start living on purpose, to help you see where you are as a man. I know how frustrating it can be to not be where you want to be, I can help you get clarity.
I know how difficult it can be to know where you want to go, but not know how to get there. I can help you clarify the steps you need to take that will enable you to change.
For more information on this go to the Mentoring Page. Here you can book a free half hour session with me where I can help you look at the issues that concern you.
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My Top Posts
My most popular posts are:
- How To Love A Woman – 10 Ways For Men To Love
- How To Love A Man – 10 Easy Steps For Women
- 10 Men Who Cant Love- Are You One Of Them?
The full index of posts is here, they are divided into 10 sections that are relevant to men. If you want to know where to start in understanding the work of ‘Male eXperience’ then I would suggest looking through the sections. Here are some posts from each section:
Be A Man
Be Spiritual
- Kali And Her Sword – Lessons for Men
- Shiva Shakti – Ambiguity And Paradox – Creation and Destruction
Be Abundant
Be Intimate
Be Passionate
Be Curious
Be A Leader
Be Compassionate
- Letting Go Of Anger – It Is Right But It Kicks You In The Gut
- Women Need Attention All The Time – So Questions, Questions
Be Emotional
- Male Bonding – Being A Man Is So Straightforward
- Vulnerability And Shame For Men – This Is Not About Weakness
Be Motivated
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Keep up to date with ‘Male eXperience’ and access Free Resources.
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Male eXperience Manifesto
‘Male eXperience’ has developed as a site; it is now time for it to develop as a movement. ‘Male eXperience’ has drawn together men from around the world, it is now time for those men to draw further together into a movement. Men work best by joining forces, it is time for men to join forces under the banner of ‘Male eXperience’.
It is appropriate for me to lay out what can bring men together and what could hold us together. I would like to propose the ‘Male eXperience Manifesto’, our shout out to the world.
20 Steps to Authentic Manhood
for full details see ‘The Winds Of Change For Men – The 20 Steps To Authentic Manhood’ and individual links below:
- 1. Live In Your Core
- 2. Understand Your Influences
- 3. Have Your Own Standards
- 4. Know Yourself As A Man
- 5. Know How You See The World
- 6. Be Present
- 7. Believe In Yourself
- 8. Be Grounded
- 9. Seek New Goals
- 10. Be Authentic
- 11. Pick Your Friends Wisely
- 12. Get A Mentor
- 13. The Process Not The Outcome
- 14. Be Passionate
- 15. Accept Change
- 16. Accept Uncertainty
- 17. Be A Servant Leader.
- 18. Be Intimate
- 19. Know Your Own Power
- 20. Live Your Full Potential
Work through these 20 steps and develop your passion for life. Find your authentic manhood and you be amazed at what you can achieve in life, in business and in your relationship. Transform yourself as a man.
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My Outposts
There are a number of interviews with me, radio programs and writing around the Internet of and by me, read/listen to them for a fuller view of me and my work:
Full listing on the Media Page.
100 Sites
I constantly keep an eye out for other men blogging for men. I don’t often see anything that’s helpful or useful. I realised that if I have problems finding good sites then I am sure men looking for help will almost find it impossible to find them.
I am, therefore, compiling a list of 100 powerful blogs for men, split into the 10 categories of ‘Male eXperience’ that look at all aspects of a man’s life. Read and follow these and your life will be changed for ever. Men read them, regularly, and feel their power.
This is a work in progress so there are not 100 yet, the individual lists are below and the full list is here:
Other Posts in the series '100 Sites'
- 10 Powerful Blogs For Men To Create Abundance
- 10 Powerful Blogs For Men To Learn and Grow By
- 10 Powerful Blogs for Passionate Men To Find Their Passion
- 10 Powerful Spiritual Blogs for Men - for Spiritual Warriors
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Keep up to date with ‘Male eXperience’ and access Free Resources.
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My Biography
My life is divided into three thirds, I am now entering the third third.
The first third was school and home followed by a wild live in the theatre. I was a production electrician and a lighting designer. The creativity I learned is the basis of everything I do in life.
The second third was as an architectural lighting designer, a husband and a father. many of the stresses of this period are explored in my writing.
The third third is with a second marriage and a new career as a writer and speaker on and for men.
In many ways I have come full circle back to helping people and living with no roots, back to being Graham Phoenix, but in between I have developed a rich life and a deep understanding of myself and how I relate to others. I have spent my life communicating with the result that I have an enormous circle of friends and colleagues who love what I do.
If you want to read my full story read my detailed biography.
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My Contact Information
You can contact me direct via the Contact Page or by one of the following:
Male eXperience – Social Media
Graham Phoenix – Social Media
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