I am a man in a relationship that is full of passion, love and polarity. Travelling we meet many people who are fascinated by what we have.
They want to know where it comes from, how we created it. They wonder how it can appear so easy and so fulfilling.
As I travel I wonder, where are all the men? Where are the men who are self-assured and confident about who they are. The men who have compassion and are capable of commitment and love. The men who are trustworthy and are willing to put the interests of a woman before their own. The men who are worthy of a woman’s attention.
What is so concerning is that this is what many women are wondering. They are looking for long-term relationships and wondering why they are not finding them. Well, you may say, that may be because they have drifted into their ‘masculine’ and are trying to control the potential relationship. This may be so but, in my view, only because men have given away their responsibility to lead and define a relationship.
Simply, men have fallen for the nonsense of the new man and come to believe that equality is the ideal. They have ceased to take control and give their woman their total and complete presence. They negotiate and plead and thereby lose all their strength. This leaves women adrift and finding they need to be more in their masculine. This is what happens when men don’t take the lead.
Men, take back your balls and show your women that they can trust you, that they can believe in you.