Gary Stamper in “Beyond Integral” has recently written on the importance of polarity in relationships. From my own experience I totally agree with him. Polarity is possibly the most vital element in a living relationship.
What is it about polarity that is so important. Thinking about it after reading Gary’s post I realised it is very basic:
- Polarity creates energy and relationships are about energy. Energy gives them life and makes them exciting. I have learnt a great deal on this through Tantra where energy is everything.
- Polarity usually ensures that both sides in the relationship are in their core. It is critical that each person is at ease with themself and is comfortable with how the other is. Polarity reveals so much about this.
- Polarity ensures their is no confusion in the relationship. Each knows his/her contribution to it and each enjoys the contribution of the other.
- Polarity creates great sex, on both sides. This is important for the longevity of the relationship.
It was fashionable when I was younger for men and women to seek equality in their relationships, I remember looking for this myself. It seemed fair to give the woman equal say in what happened and for the man to equally contribute. There is no reason why polarity cannot include elements of this. A re-awakened relationship will take the best of the past and integrate it into a new, exciting, energetic relationship.
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