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Focus on You as a Man

Be a Man

I have been away from this site for over a month, it seems like an age! I have been travelling from Holland to Spain and organising my life. During this time I have been thinking about ‘Male eXperience’, its direction, its future and how it relates to your life. It’s going well and getting recognition around the net. It is doing its job, helping you look at yourself. But is this enough, is this its true focus? Can I focus the site more accurately, to achieve better results, to gain more depth and to help you in a more identifiable way.

In pursuit of this greater focus I see three areas that I need to get clarity on. They are:

What is ‘Male eXperience’ for?

Who is its target audience?

What is the issue that causes the greatest pain?

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Maleness, Manhood or Masculinity

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What does it mean to be a ‘Man’? How can this best be described? What is a ‘Man’? Male is a biological term which has no connotations. It is a simple and straightforward definition of gender. “For male and female alike, the bodies of the other sex are messages signaling what we must do, they are glowing signifiers of our own necessities.” (John Updike)

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About Men By Women

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I was recently involved in a discussion on Facebook that was prompted by a man asking why he was not succeeding with women. The responses from women show a need that is not being provided by men.

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Female Testing

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There are three men Tom, Dick and Harry. Tom found women lost interest in him. Dick found his relationships crashing and burning. Harry had a secure long-term relationship and found women constantly interested in him. All three men had the same advantages in terms of looks and wealth so what’s the difference? It’s in how they react to female testing.

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