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I Wanted To Take A Break From MaleXperience But Did Not Admit It

Two months ago I wrote a post that I did not publish. I suppose I was nervous about revealing my thoughts so clearly. I now know that did not serve me. I publish it now after the event.

5 Reasons I Want To Take A Break From MaleXperience

For 6 months I have hovered around 20,000 page views a month. I think that is a great feat, but the numbers are stuck. For three months I have been sending out a weekly newsletter, the response has been consistent, averaging round 90-120 click throughs per week, but in three months my list has hardly grown, the numbers are stuck.

I have been writing for MaleXperience on a weekly basis and nothing seems to be moving or happening. I get the message that it is time to change, time to move on, time to re-think what I am doing.… Continue Reading

Catching Up With My Lifestyle

I look back at the last two months, at the break from MaleXperience, at the lifestyle I have been enjoying. I look at how essential it is to take an over view of your life.

I am interested to know what you do to take a break from what you are doing, from your passion. I am also interested in what concerns you as men.

Let me know what is happening for you and what you seek in MaleXperience. Let me know through the comments, by email or on Facebook. I look forward to your responses and to using them to guide the future of MaleXperience.

It Is About Control Not Sex – Henry Rollins Speaks Out

Rape is generally about control not sex. It is about domination, usually by men of women, although it happens in other combinations as well. In my view it is not so much a gender issue as a human issue. It is about sad people who cannot see how to live decent lives and take that out on others.

What is tragic, though, is how it blights the lives of those involved. Often the lives of the victims are shattered with devastating ripple effects. The lives of the perpetuators are affected as well, often for the rest of their lives. Victims can become perpetuators, and so on.

But I am getting ahead of myself.

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Some years ago my son started a tradition of giving me a journal every year. The first one he gave me had a quote at the front, that he had written, from Henry Rollins. It was my first introduction to this former punk musician, from my punk musician son. The quote said,

“A lot of people spend their lives never getting to know their potential. They show up for work, despise their boss and the way they have to live but lack the guts to walk out the door and never come back. In the end they get what’s coming to them.”