Today’s post is from a client and friend, Steve M Nash. He has written for MaleXperience before about his journey. In this piece he talks about his experience working with me.
“Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.”
I‘ve been coaching people all my life.
I just never realised it until now.
So people would ask me questions then, usually about relationships, and I’d do my best (with what I had) to try and get to the bottom of what their problem was.
I’d always try to empathise, and to do so from as many points of view as there were.
And I’d help. In a manner of speaking, anyway. The help I offered was usually about solutions or advice, which I now no longer think is the best way to coach people. But, hey, I was doing it for free, as part of my friendship (sometimes, the only reason for my friendship – alas!), and I was always able to learn about myself in the process.Continue Reading